Saturday, June 18, 2011


My midnight read:
                                                

This is the perfect read to doze off to as I go to bed. I get to dream about looking good! Plus honestly some of the best advice. knowledge, and wisdom from Nina Garcia's land of style.

"IT'S FREE!!"

It was a beautiful Saturday afternoon today in DC. Got up. Had coffee with my roommate and her boyfriend. And pondered how best to take advantage of the day and my disposition. 

As I was discussing with my roommate the leave-the-house-spend-money routine I had come to develop on days like this, I got a call. A friend invited me to meet her for an afternoon of shopping. Sounds like a perfect Saturday activity, right? I asked if I could let her know within the hour. I talked out the pros and cons of the proposed activity with my roommate. She countered with what I thought was a novel offer: "come play soccer with me in the park. IT'S FREE!"

No sooner had she spoken gold, I had declined the shopping offer and had the idea for this blog post. 

Exercise is a great way to make closet shopping worth your while in all aspects. Doing this free and accessible activity contributes to financial safety (not shopping), promotes health, and can provide a new interests in the clothes you have hanging in your closet. 

There is nothing more exciting for a woman than going into her closet after a good workout and shower, and trying on clothes  anew. So many options spring up that compliment the positive transformation of your body. 

So if you ever find your self in a similar Saturday conundrum, don't take the default route of spending. Rather take time and realllly enjoy what your Saturday is offering up-- a round of soccer, a healthy food summer cook out, or sitting on your porch reading a book. In the end it all comes back to investing in you and appreciating the whole of life. 

Well however you choose to spend your Saturday, do whats best for you and go CONFIDENTLY in that direction.






Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

The Closet Confessional

Forgive me, Closet Shoppers, for I have sinned...

In an effort to regain your trust and earn your followship I have come to you bearing my soul. 

The weekend after I posted my first blog about the 30 day closet diet, I relapsed. I went and spent money I didn't have on clothes that meant nothing to me. I was ashamed and embarrassed about my financial situation (broke and unemployed with bills I needed to pay but couldn't) and thought I had something to prove by impulse buying. Well it backfired.

I spent about a week sleeping on the sofa because I could not face the evidence of my desperation: sitting in my closet, tags still attached, folded in an orange Banana Republic "SALE" bag. I could not face faking a blog post about success or divulging a secret that in the end made me feel worthless.



Looking back on it, I didn't give myself or you, CS, a chance to see this is part of the process. Closet shopping isn't just appreciation for what you have but also recognition of who you are. The closet is an introspective lens into who you are, how you showcase that individuality to the rest of the world. 

Nowadays, I have a good job and my finances are moving out of the ICU ward. I decided to revisit the 30 day Closet Diet and I have 3 more days to go. I finally decided to give my closet the respect it deserves. And you know what? I have gotten compliments on 90% of the outfits I have put together.

In the end it doesn't matter what is in your closet or what you have in your wallet to fill it. All a girl ever needs is her CONFIDENCE.

Jey


Articles worth reading!!!

Buyer's Remorse

http://www.realsimple.com/beauty-fashion/clothing/buyers-remorse-00000000055957/index.html

Buying Diet?
http://www.oprah.com/money/How-to-Shop-Smarter-and-Buy-Only-What-You-Need-Martha-Beck

Real-Life Shopaholic
http://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity-lifestyle/articles/living/shopping-addiction?click=main_sr